Souper Fat Tuesday: The Paczki, the King Cake and I

Happy Fat Tuesday!

Mardi Gras is everything I want in a day: an excuse to eat decadent foods, imbibe with abandon and generally be merry.

Mardi Gras in New Orleans

This year was looking pretty sad on all of those fronts. Yes, I’ll be cooking up a pancake dinner for the 8th year in a row. But I’m still feeling the effects of the illness knocked me down last week, so I won’t be hosting a crowd. Nor, thanks to my persistent headache, will I be drinking anything stronger than La Croix. People, this is the longest I’ve gone without a drink since I was pregnant with Rory.

(There’s no option but to be better by Thursday, when we leave to celebrate my nephew’s first birthday in Wisconsin. Because I’m pretty sure it’s illegal to set foot in that state and not drink a beer.)

The frosting on the pity party cake? The kids’ school was closed for a “snow day” due to the drizzle of frozen rain that fell at 3:00 yesterday. I’m sure they had their reasons, and reports indicate some slick spots on the road early this morning. But by the time I was driving the kids to a playdate with my Snow Day Survival crew at 10:00, the roads were not only clear of ice, they were perfectly dry. Sunbaked, even.

rory paint

Rory’s snow day activity: a DYI (while Mom’s in the other room) Mardi Gras mask.

Needless to say, I was not feeling very festive.

All that changed with a text from my next door neighbor, who is a talented (and generous) baker.

“Want some nice warm king cake?”

Let me pause here to explain that I was raised in an German/Norwegian evangelical Christian family where, for whatever reason, I don’t remember celebrating Fat Tuesday/Shrove Tuesday. I understood Mardi Gras to mean “a party in New Orleans.”

I know we acknowledged Ash Wednesday, though I never got the ol’ ashes on the forehead until I was an adult. I envied my Catholic best friend who “got to” do things like give up gum for Lent. (And wear those cute plaid uniform skirts to school, too.)

Attending a Catholic university in Milwaukee changed this. Not only did I get a better sense of the liturgical year and various holidays, I also was introduced to the food that accompanied these feast days.


Nice Polish Catholic girls (not unlike my childhood best friend) introduced me to Paczki Day and lamb cakes. Moving to Chicago – which has the biggest Polish population of any city outside of Poland – only continued the party of culinary delights.

lamb cake

Living in the south for the last ten years has given me the chance to enjoy plenty of food I never ate growing up: grits, banana pudding, hush puppies, okra. But – unless I am blocking out a very enjoyable memory, and childhood friends, feel free to remind me – it wasn’t until my neighbor’s text today that I had been offered king cake.

It would make sense. While Wikipedia tells me that king cake has Catholic roots, its history in the United States seems to be more in the southern part of the country. I had heard of it; though even if I hadn’t, have I ever been one to turn down something with the word “cake” in it?

So when my neighbor sent another text saying that she had taken some to the house and given it to Pat (who was working from home in the morning due to the “snow day”), and asked me to tell him to be careful not to choke on the baby, I knew what she was talking about. The idea of a baby doll being hidden in cake seemed vaguely familiar.

“So, the baby in a king cake is Jesus, then?” I asked my playdate crew.

We decided that must be the case.

I texted Pat. “Hallie wanted me to let you know there’s a baby in the cake, so don’t choke on it.”

Two minutes later, my phone rang. Pat never calls me. Even when I call him, he replies with a texted “What’s up?”

I stepped out of the room to answer.

“Hi,” I said.

“That’s crazy!” he said.


“About the baby!

“What do you mean?”

“I ate two pieces of that cake, it was so good. Then I was putting it back on the counter, and I saw this shiny orange thing, and was like ‘what is that?’ And it was this little doll! And I was worried I had accidentally eaten part of it.”

“Did you eat it?”

“No, I don’t think so. So how did she know?”

“How did she know what?”

“About the baby?”

Pat apparently thought that a small plastic doll had randomly fallen into the cake batter when our neighbor was preparing it. And that somehow, perhaps during her afternoon rounds taking inventory of her small plastic doll collection, she had realized one was missing.

(It wouldn’t have been without precedent: Pat once discovered a rubber band in the tuna casserole my mom had made for dinner while she was visiting. “That’s where that went!” she had exclaimed.)

Pat was gone by the time we got home from the play date. The tiny doll was sitting on the plate next to the cake. And the cake? It was amazing. As perfect as a baked good can be. I mean, look at this.


A fine Fat Tuesday after all. And, as I’m planning on another slice of cake, it’s about to get fatter.

How do you celebrate Fat Tuesday? What foods do you associate with your ethnic or religious heritage? And on that topic, can somebody send me some good lefse?